Marching Toward Resilience: Family Lessons from Military Life

Military families move often, face long deployments, and live with constant change—yet they remain some of the most resilient and connected families out there. In this episode of Awkward Conversations, hosts Jodie Sweetin and Amy McCarthy explore what all parents can learn from that strength. Joined by veteran Dave Colson and Paul Ryan, Chairman of the Elks National Veterans Service Commission, the conversation highlights how structure, routine, and open communication help kids stay grounded through major transitions. Through personal stories and expert insight, this episode offers practical ways any family can build resilience, support emotional well-being, and stay connected through change. Key Moments: 01:09 Meet The Experts 01:49 Meet Paul Ryan & The Elks National Veterans Service Commission 02:30 What Elks is doing for Veterans Today 04:36 How Elks Veterans Programs Differs From Others 11:21 Unique Stressors for Military Families 11:52 Building Resilience and Routine 20:26 The Importance of Community and Connection 26:38 Dave Colson's Work and Resources Paul Ryan is the Chairman of the Elks National Veterans Service Commission and a Commissioner of the Elks Drug Awareness Program, which partners with the DEA to support this series. He leads the Elks’ century-long mission to serve veterans through housing assistance, health support, community programs, and initiatives that reduce isolation and strengthen connection. Through his leadership, Paul continues to expand the Elks’ impact nationwide, ensuring veterans and their families receive the care, dignity, and support they deserve. Dave Closson, the owner of DJC Solutions, LLC, a consulting company dedicated to serving substance misuse prevention professionals, law enforcement officers, and military veterans across the United States. With a focus on sustainable habits, aligned experiences, and next-level excellence, Dave helps others achieve their full potential. He was the very first Director of the Mid-America Prevention Technology Transfer Center, where he served as a prevention catalyst, empowering individuals and fostering partnerships to promote safe, healthy, and drug-free communities. https://www.daveclosson.com/links Supporting Organizations: The Elks: With nearly one million members across 2,000 lodges, the Elks are dedicated to youth drug prevention through their Drug and Alcohol Prevention (DAP) program. They have donated over $3.6 billion to various causes, including the creation of the first VA hospital for veterans. Elks Drug Awareness Program Website: https://bit.ly/44SunO6 DEA: Established in 1973, DEA enforces U.S. controlled substance laws nationally and internationally, with offices around the globe. www.dea.gov Resources/Links: GetSmartAboutDrugs.com https://www.getsmartaboutdrugs.gov/ Hidden in Plain Sight Program https://www.dea.gov/sites/default/files/2023-06/Hidden%20in%20Plain%20Sight.pdf DEA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deahq Elks Kid Zone Website: https://bit.ly/3s79Zdt Dave Closson's Links https://www.daveclosson.com/links #AwkwardConversations #MilitaryFamilies #Veterans #ParentingAdvice #FamilySupport #Resilience #DEA #Elks